... that's something like saying that a network that isn't working can't be used.Right. And the proposed network that can't overcome the barrier to entry can't be used, either. That's what I meant in saying a new internet wouldn't get off the ground.
If you could promise people $5/month for high-speed access they'd flock to you in droves. But if the only way to make money at that price is to already be the only game in town, you're not going to build it.
Even if there is only one game in town, the value of the network affects how much people will be willing to pay for it, and how much usage of the network there will be.You're using "value" for "utility". The "value" of the network is how much people are willing to pay for it. They don't pay because it's valuable. It's valuable because people are willing to pay.
I just thought of another thing. In your explanation of why larger networks want smaller networks to pay when they merge, you used Metcalfe's Law to describe the value of the networks. It would make more sense to use Zipf's Law. If the smaller network has all of the top third most-popular nodes, it will probably be more valuable.