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New Fair enough.
Well, Brenda - you have the direct experience and you tried to do some homework; that's the kernel of actual 'science' - though we see that the soft ones like psych and socio - are proof that logic just isn't enough, when dealing with homo saps.

You're as entitled to an opinion towards "some plan" as anyone else here. As suggested though.. you may share with millions of 'innumerate' Muricans - a rather shaky knowledge of how we lie (even to selves) via statistics. Good recent example is given in this thread.

Dunno if there's much hope of the species ever evading its reptile brain base - after all, look at the mission of the PNAC (a New Murican Empire\ufffd) ie all the President's Men. We see that the reptile-base cannot be reliably out'grown'- note how few actual 'adults' one encounters/year. Even at the Top.

The kids are just closer to that primal influence. Then too, today they are exposed to more noise/day than could be imagined - a mere 20 years ago; distracted by infinite toys (and the Need to get More of these), baggy-pantsed in perfect conformity aka 'rebellion'; often drugged for brand new Pharmchem-defined dis-eases, ie - WTF did we expect! when we "allowed it to become?" necessary for *Both parents to work, now more often in multiple jobs -- in lieu of parental oversight and actual teaching-by-example, "nurturing of the young"?

* Both: that is, occasionally today. Compound the above difficulties for the growing ranks of One.

Trying for creation of any more official Authorities - would just play into the Ashcroftizing of further Constitutional rights and principles; another pattern we can see, looking backwards.

Face it, then: we [the species] just aren't Smart enough, or dedicated enough.. especially as our attention spans weaken from the constant cacophony of ads, noise, bizness-lies and the other intentional Lying in a day. Be grateful that only a few carry out their fantasies!

(After all, a decent respect for Gaia, for the survival of the Earth as a viable place: would hasten the departure! of *this* over-populating, massively polluting, now-more-suicidal species.. as rarely produces an authentic Adult, just mainly - perpetual teens..)



Looking on the Bwight Side,

Ashton
New Re: Fair enough.
Well, Brenda - you have the direct experience and you tried to do some homework; that's the kernel of actual 'science' - though we see that the soft ones like psych and socio - are proof that logic just isn't enough, when dealing with homo saps.


Thanks Ashton. This is a topic that I do my best to be informed about, mainly because I am indeed interested in gaining more understanding about it.

You're as entitled to an opinion towards "some plan" as anyone else here. As suggested though.. you may share with millions of 'innumerate' Muricans - a rather shaky knowledge of how we lie (even to selves) via statistics. Good recent example is given in this thread.


Well, I still don't see that my data was all that flawed, because it was factual, it just only covered one aspect of the issue. But that was the only aspect I was trying to cover. That particular data was collected in a study of all the school shootings across the country over a period of time from Columbine until last year. I don't remember all the info from it, but I remember that particular statistic. I probably have the article somewhere, buried in one of my school shooting files. But the bottom line is I was only stating one statistic, not covering all.

I would be very interested though, in finding a study of the kids that said it and didn't do it, but of course that would be hard, because you would have to exclude all the ones that said it and were caught and or stopped. How would one know whether said child would have carried it out in actuality or not? Someone tried once if I recall correctly, in the 80's, to do a study on children/teens who threatened suicide, vs children/teens who did it, but they ran into the same problem. How to include in the statistics the ones who said it and were stopped. Once again, there was no way to know if they would have carried it through. Even when the kids/teens were asked, they weren't sure themselves.

The kids are just closer to that primal influence. Then too, today they are exposed to more noise/day than could be imagined - a mere 20 years ago; distracted by infinite toys (and the Need to get More of these), baggy-pantsed in perfect conformity aka 'rebellion'; often drugged for brand new Pharmchem-defined dis-eases, ie - WTF did we expect! when we "allowed it to become?" necessary for *Both parents to work, now more often in multiple jobs -- in lieu of parental oversight and actual teaching-by-example, "nurturing of the young"?


I agree here, that dual working parents did indeed provide less parental supervision and more freedom for the children/teens to traverse down the more dangerous paths. Unfortunately, in today's economy, it's become necessary if not required, for both parents to work in order to provide adequately for their families. And many parents are single-parents, also struggling to make ends meet, and with little time to spend chaperoning or supervising their children.

Trying for creation of any more official Authorities - would just play into the Ashcroftizing of further Constitutional rights and principles; another pattern we can see, looking backwards.


Well, something I didn't make clear was it didn't necessarily have to be a law enforcement program. It could be something run by each school district, or even by the state in conjunction with the school district. Maybe the schools could set up programs to help these troubled kids/teens when they are spotted or found out. Maybe they could provide counselors, (not pumped up with drugs, just given someone to talk to), and some support systems to enable the child to feel less helpless in the face of the bullying and other treatment.

Maybe they would even be able to initiate a bully awareness program, something to enlighten the students about how bullying makes people feel and how badly the victims take it at times, and how to spot someone who's feeling bullied or mistreated. Basically, start at the school level where the parents aren't available to watch over the kids, and involve the parents where they are able to be involved, such as parent-child counseling, or awareness programs for the parents as well as the children.

I'm not really just saying another form of lockup would work. Maybe it would, maybe not, but the main thing is to find a system that identifies these "cries for help" from these troubled children and to provide that help which they cry for.

I've seen such school-run systems actually work and make a difference in some schools that elected to take a role in lessening bullying and offering support. It would just be a matter of finding a plan that would work for either all the schools or maybe tailor making plans for each one.

I just don't see what expelling the children and or arresting them does, they will wind up back out on the street with even less parental/teacher supervision, and or out on parole or Juvenile hall with nothing learned.

Maybe I am dreaming, but at least it's a positive sort of dream, rather than to lock these kids and their lives away and throw out the key.

Nightowl >8#






"It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends."
(Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown).
     'Nosy' students avert possible school shooting - (jbrabeck) - (60)
         Thoughtcrime! - (pwhysall) - (55)
             Not quite - (jbrabeck) - (54)
                 Absolutely! - (pwhysall) - (53)
                     Question - (jbrabeck) - (10)
                         Right when you start DOING things. - (pwhysall) - (7)
                             Does this constitute "doing something"? - (jbrabeck) - (6)
                                 Not in my book. - (pwhysall) - (5)
                                     So, in your world... - (jb4) - (4)
                                         Let's temper this with pragmatism, eh? - (pwhysall) - (1)
                                             I agree with you, that one was ridiculous. - (jbrabeck)
                                         Nah, in my world - (jake123) - (1)
                                             Yah, in my world, too - (jb4)
                         guilty of conspiracy once you involve another - (daemon)
                         Conspiricy to commit - (bepatient)
                     aka "The Minority Report" -NT - (lincoln) - (4)
                         That film did cross my mind, yes. -NT - (pwhysall) - (3)
                             Never saw it. -NT - (jbrabeck) - (2)
                                 One of Cruise's better films. - (pwhysall) - (1)
                                     Yup, the storyline is original - (ben_tilly)
                     Maybe not a criminal - (Nightowl) - (36)
                         Bah. - (pwhysall) - (35)
                             I don't think you read my post right - (Nightowl) - (34)
                                 Oh, I read it right, all right. - (pwhysall) - (33)
                                     You think what you like, that's not what I said. - (Nightowl) - (31)
                                         And in 10 out of every 10, the kids breathed air -NT - (ben_tilly)
                                         Kids committed crimes at early ages a long time ago too. - (inthane-chan) - (12)
                                             They use both - (Nightowl)
                                             Bull. Access? No difference. - (imric) - (9)
                                                 Sounds like you need a psychiatric evaluation! -NT - (pwhysall) - (4)
                                                     That's not MY fault. - (imric) - (3)
                                                         Let's search your property and find out! - (pwhysall) - (1)
                                                             ROFLMAO! -NT - (imric)
                                                         *sputter* coffee through nose - (bepatient)
                                                 I didn't say it was access - (Nightowl)
                                                 It probably had to do with location - (Nightowl)
                                                 Re: Bull. Access? No difference. - (deSitter)
                                                 Hmmm. Sounds like we need more of these. - (mmoffitt)
                                             You're right also - (Nightowl)
                                         Read Oliver Twist... - (pwhysall)
                                         Lies, Damn Lies, and... - (jb4) - (15)
                                             Then whats a lie about what I said? - (Nightowl) - (14)
                                                 Why? - (drewk) - (8)
                                                     Are you sure you want to know? - (Nightowl) - (7)
                                                         Yes. -NT - (pwhysall) - (6)
                                                             Okay here goes. - (Nightowl) - (5)
                                                                 Oh, THAT. - (pwhysall) - (2)
                                                                     He sounds fascinating - (Nightowl) - (1)
                                                                         Told ya so. -NT - (pwhysall)
                                                                 Fair enough. - (Ashton) - (1)
                                                                     Re: Fair enough. - (Nightowl)
                                                 Umm.. - (hnick) - (4)
                                                     I was just questioning - (Nightowl) - (2)
                                                         Just guessing - (jbrabeck) - (1)
                                                             Ah ok - (Nightowl)
                                                     What. He. Said. -NT - (jb4)
                                     how does a brit kid end up in care? - (daemon)
         s/possible/unlikely/ -NT - (ben_tilly) - (3)
             Re: s/possible/unlikely/ - (jb4) - (2)
                 Check the title of the post -NT - (hnick) - (1)
                     Uhhh...Oooops! - (jb4)

Is this how you were? Because I said, "As you were," and I don't think this is how you were.
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