to you and everyone.
Remember you have two DIFFERENT daughters. I have 5 (3 step, 2 bio) daughters. Jessica is the middle child. Two are done with HS, Jessica graduates next year. And two to follow.
What works for one may not work for the other. One may need tight rein, the other free rein.
They're growing and trying to learn how to be an adult. To us that's scary. Our children are changing, growing, and soon will no longer "need" us. And it shows that we are "getting older".
Love 'em and guide 'em as best you can.
Even with boys! :-)
Good luck to ALL of us with children.