My old friend Bob Barnes (raving queer (of the drunken "gay gormet" variety (until he joined the Hari Krishna (who probably added ten years to his life)))) returned to Oberlin College for masters classes (in viola da gamba).
He was attending one of the faculty concerts. A young lady was playing harpsichord on stage, and Bob was absolutely enthralled. He turned to the person next to him and said, "Isn't she fabulous?". That person replied, "Yes, I think so. I married her".
Ref: Oberlin faculty concerts, that era. You've heard the saying, "those who can't do, teach". Well, I heard the tapes. Those that "can do" can't play like that - never will. You will not hear anything like that on records or in the concert hall. Never.