Stop trying to obtain a recipe for zIWETHEY doubleplusgood newthink and just take on board what's been said, and move on.
Between BeeP, Gryge and myself, you have all the information you need. Take it forward, and start by posting about stuff, instead of introspective internet touchy-feely tree-hugging hippie crap like the rubbish you and Norm have been posting to each other.
Go yak about cars. Go yak about hockey. That's STUFF.