Get two sheets of paper. Draw a line down the middle. Put your likes for each company (in two columns). Put your dislikes/fears for each company on the other sheet.
Show them to your wife. Let her add or take away. See if one stands out.
Do some research.
I would probably look on the Internet at the stability of both companies. Look at where they sit in the marketplace competitively. Are they the leader? The laggard? Try to get financials for both. Take the "stronger" company.
If one is in bankruptcy or has posted 24 months or more of consecutive losses, I would chose the other one.
If one is willing to help you with "career goals", I would count that.
Finally, pray about the decision and be satisfied with your choice.
You did the very best you could.
Glen Austin