Answer the questions. Not what your feeling is.
I asked specific questions, Do you need me to expanded the detail to the point of childishness? If you could just ANSWER those questions, it'd be grand.
Unless you can't.
And we are Dwebians, Snobbians, Deb-O-Snobs for a reason. That, which you'll never quite understand. Mainly due to your slant of US vs. THEM. Debian goes to the CORE of what OSS really means. It goes so far as to HELP those projects and packages associated to it's Linux flavor as to comform to a set of guidelines. RPM is a similar set, as to HOW to package, but Debian goes a bit further, stating not only HOW to package but HOW that package is submitted and HOW and WHERE the files associated with that package needs to install to and how it's to be managed. also, the quality Control that packages go through. Options in something like Postgreql, are usually packaged seperately as they are options. They are compiled at the same time and packaged at the same time, but made seperate from the Primary.