when she becomes your wife, and you have a child to or, those lovemaking sessions become fewer and fewer, or at least for me they do. Get in the mood, and then Orion Jr. is crying in the next room for Mommy to hold him. Darnit, he won't have any brothers or sisters if this keeps up. But when we were first married, he did it any time we wanted to at home. Now we have to get an overnight babysitter or hope that he sleeps the night without waking up and wanting mommy. Four years of this so far. If it keeps up, I might forget how to do it. The medicine makes the actual act take longer, and other things, but my wife isn't complaining about that. :)