I just checked the MacBook Pro and Firefox was up to 5+ GB of RAM. Lots of beachball activity even though there was still ~ 7 GB of RAM free. FF was eating all the CPU too - to the point that "about:memory" wouldn't run ("non-responsive script").
That got me thinking that maybe it's a hard drive issue. Disk Utility said the drive is fine (the original 500 GB 5400 rpm Seagate). I repaired the Permissions, and as usual it found hundreds of things that were "wrong" and fixed them, but who knows if it has anything to do with anything.
Macs are great when they run fine, but they're inscrutable when something goes wrong.
Grr...
I hope you have better luck. It looks like at least some of the 2009 MacPros can handle 48 GB of RAM. http://www.everymac....index-macpro.html
Cheers,
Scott.