No matter how you want to try and fudge factor otherwise...entitlements (non-discretionary spending..which does include vet benefits) is magnitudes higher than defense spending..even if you add builing nukes.
Even if you accept the governments figures non-military spending is only 4 times military spending. Given a more realistic figure, military spending is around 1/3, entitlements are around 1/3, payments on our debt is about 10% and the other 25% or so is everything else.
Jay