attracted to the same type of partner that delights in kicking your guts out? Not recognising a pattern and falling for it again and again? No sordid love lives in your circle's past? How very homo perfecto.
However if your take was sheer depression that in this age of world cultural clash the hamneggers dont have a clue or an instict, perhaps I share some of that, but while some people scream and pray while the ship is sinking, I prefer to have another glass and laugh at the fat broad frantically humping the dwarf, with an eye to the stashed life preserver.
regards,
daemon