Martin Luther King Junior had a dream, and I have that dream as well. I try to live it in my life, I do try not to judge by the color of skin, but by the content of character. I am not always successful, but I try, and it is the struggle in some ways that is more important than the goal.
Unfortunately, the rest of the world doesn't work that way. I'd rather have living kids pissed off at the universe that deals from the bottom of the deck than a couple of body bags. The trick isn't to get them to hate themselves, or to distrust all white folks, but to realize that the universe ain't fair, and to get them pissed off about THAT to the point where they try to do something about it.