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Post #47,532
by orion
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7/30/02 9:05:25 PM
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New Has been done
my wife was totally against spanking and got mad at me for spanking our son. Until he started to hit and pinch her, then she told me to spank him. But he doesn't always learn, he goes right to doing the same things over again that got him spanked before. I also grab him by the shoulders, look him right in the eye, and talk to him about what he did and why it was wrong. He does have a bit of a temper and gets upset real easily when this happens. Crys, runs to his room and locks the door behind him, etc. What to do when time outs, spankings, serious talks, and other stuff fail?
I am free now, to choose my own destiny.
Post #47,534
by ben_tilly
7/30/02 9:15:16 PM
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New The best thing is to set a good example
Sometimes nothing will work. But any solution is more likely to if the adults around can say, Do as I do with a straight face and mean it.

Cheers,
Ben
"... I couldn't see how anyone could be educated by this self-propagating system in which people pass exams, teach others to pass exams, but nobody knows anything."
--Richard Feynman
     How not to raise brats or problem-childs? - (orion) - (26) - July 15, 2002, 06:42:01 PM EDT
         Parenting with Love and Logic - (Steve Lowe) - July 15, 2002, 11:14:49 PM EDT
         the golden rule - (boxley) - (1) - July 16, 2002, 11:30:22 AM EDT
             Or as my dad says - (orion) - July 16, 2002, 12:50:04 PM EDT
         Difficult question - (wharris2) - July 16, 2002, 02:31:14 PM EDT
         WHACK! - (deSitter) - (20) - July 29, 2002, 11:52:51 PM EDT
             Yup. - (Steve Lowe) - (16) - July 30, 2002, 12:40:03 PM EDT
                 Nope - (ben_tilly) - (15) - July 30, 2002, 09:02:20 PM EDT
                     Within limits - (drewk) - (3) - July 31, 2002, 08:10:31 AM EDT
                         You can get their attention more easily - (ben_tilly) - (2) - July 31, 2002, 09:09:51 PM EDT
                             OT: love your .sig - (Steve Lowe) - (1) - Aug. 1, 2002, 12:41:15 AM EDT
                                 Thanks - (ben_tilly) - Aug. 1, 2002, 06:46:21 AM EDT
                     Hmmyah... With one or two exceptions, I think[*] - (CRConrad) - (10) - July 31, 2002, 09:53:15 AM EDT
                         Rant On ! - (boxley) - July 31, 2002, 11:18:53 AM EDT
                         Exceptions - (orion) - July 31, 2002, 12:31:17 PM EDT
                         Not those exceptions - (ben_tilly) - (7) - July 31, 2002, 09:02:49 PM EDT
                             I think I see something. - (static) - (4) - Aug. 2, 2002, 12:53:00 AM EDT
                                 Kinda right - (ben_tilly) - (3) - Aug. 2, 2002, 06:49:01 AM EDT
                                     Slogans like, "spare the rod, spoil the child" - (Ashton) - Aug. 2, 2002, 10:44:50 AM EDT
                                     Difference between a dog and a child - (orion) - (1) - Aug. 2, 2002, 12:56:11 PM EDT
                                         ok.. - (deSitter) - Aug. 2, 2002, 02:03:50 PM EDT
                             Yes, exactly those exceptions. - (CRConrad) - (1) - Aug. 2, 2002, 05:34:53 PM EDT
                                 We have very different views of "acceptable" - (ben_tilly) - Aug. 2, 2002, 07:00:06 PM EDT
             do it out of love or fear but you WILL respect me - (boxley) - July 30, 2002, 12:14:53 PM EDT
             Has been done - (orion) - (1) - July 30, 2002, 09:05:25 PM EDT
                 The best thing is to set a good example - (ben_tilly) - July 30, 2002, 09:15:16 PM EDT
         OT: Uncle Tax - (orion) - July 31, 2002, 10:21:16 PM EDT

Sounds like a horse. Maybe it was.
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