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New “Facilitated”
The spousette is meeting today with a prospective client whose case she will almost certainly decline—it would require more time and resources than she has free at the moment—although she hopes in the course of their consultation to point him toward firms with whom his case might be a better fit.

The object of the case is a severely autistic male, late teens, who neither speaks nor, presumably, reads. There are other things he doesn’t do, but I will spare you these, my auditors. One thing he does do is paint. From what I’ve seen, the works may be (perhaps charitably) described as “abstract.” When the kid was eleven the proud (desperate?) father printed up a little trifold flyer with his son’s paintings, together with a narrative purporting to be the prodigy’s own words. Since the prodigy communicates only via grunts and screams, it was necessary to transcribe his thoughts via “facilitated typing.” Yeah, right. Turns out the kid can produce grammatical sentences with subordinate clauses, and has thoughts about the nature of “God’s gifts” to him.

Me, I hope that these presents came with a fucking “gift” receipt for exchange or refund purposes.

I don’t mean to mock* the father here. It must be an impossible position—I can’t even—and I’m sure that some psychological imperatives came into play as he “facilitated” his son’s fingers on the keyboard. No doubt he believes he has channeled the boy’s thoughts. The case is heartbreaking.

What, as a matter of public policy, is to be done with such cases? You can’t euthanize them (at least not yet—following a second Trump term, who knows?), and I do not think that, legal majority being reached, their parents, who have certainly drunk the lees of sorrow more than any of us ever will, should be chained to the child world without end, amen. Honestly, I think these creatures “are and of right ought to be” charges upon the public trust. There is actually a system in California, the so-called “Regional Centers,” set up to care for such unfortunates, although they sometimes have to be compelled by court order to do so. Fun factoid: Early in her career L routinely represented the SF Regional Center when it would attempt to turn away applicants. The process sickened her, and after a few years she defected to the other side (although mainly carrying water on behalf of minors, who fall outside the Regional Centers’ purview). She reports that even though it put us on short rations until a few years ago, she sleeps easier.

cordially,

*But there is apparently a class of “professional” “facilitators” who do this sort of thing, and mockery is the mildest of responses I might contemplate for these charlatans.
New definitely a public charge
"Science is the belief in the ignorance of the experts" – Richard Feynman
New Re: “Facilitated”
I think that people with challenges such as your hero, that are of a magnitude that require specialist care all day, every day, are those who are deserving of a place somewhere (I hesitate to use the loaded word "institution") that is able and willing to provide the professional service and care that they require. The parents of such children do, in my eyes, have a right to their own lives and pursuit of happiness - the burden of seeing one's child in such a state is heavy enough.

I also think that it behoves the State to spend a little less on security and military theatre, and a little more on this sort of thing.
New Quite.
Encountering the same thing with my deeply dementia ridden father. He is so far gone that my mother's quality of life is suffering. It has taken her quite a while to realize this and my sister and I have to keep reminding each other and her that The System knows how to care for one such as him - she doesn't and trying to is robbing her of life.

Wade.
New Amen!
There was a time states in the US had such institutions. But then some bureaucrats and politicians decided that much money could saved by letting the inmates fend for themselves. So these inmates became "street people" along with alcoholics and drug addicts. Inevitably these folks broke laws and became inmates of prisons. The prison staff is not trained to deal with people with mental issues.
Alex

"There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that "my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge."

-- Isaac Asimov
New Re: Amen!
"There was a time states in the US had such institutions."

Yes there was. To read about the last place left like that, start here:

https://www.amazon.com/Gods-Hotel-Hospital-Pilgrimage-Medicine/dp/1594486549/ref=pd_sbs_14_56?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1594486549&pd_rd_r=fe7c0705-de56-49b8-ac06-ed7274aa63e2&pd_rd_w=In8TG&pd_rd_wg=399xi&pf_rd_p=d66372fe-68a6-48a3-90ec-41d7f64212be&pf_rd_r=5ERQ5AAJYSY3Y8Y8D2N0&psc=1&refRID=5ERQ5AAJYSY3Y8Y8D2N0

From the description:

"...San Francisco’s Laguna Honda Hospital is the last almshouse in the country, a descendant of the Hôtel-Dieu (God’s hotel) that cared for the sick in the Middle Ages. Ballet dancers and rock musicians, professors and thieves—“anyone who had fallen, or, often, leapt, onto hard times” and needed extended medical care—ended up here. "
New My brother is autistic.
He's 59.

There are levels of autism, of course.

When we were little, he was in a state institution in Georgia for a while, and lived at home for a while, was in a private institution in the Georgia mountains for a while, and always wanted to have his own apartment and live independently.

He eventually got his GED.

Eventually, my dad gave in and accepted that he was miserable and found a way to get him set up with his own apartment. He has a part-time job (washing dishes). It's worked out very, very well. He's been working and in the same apartment for over nearly two decades.

All of his successes would have been unimaginable in the '60s.

I understand that my brother is in much better shape than your artist example. The point is, even in the 1960s there were state programs to help the mentally disabled. Just about every state has something similar, and much better, now, typically paid through Medicare and Medicaid. Employment opportunities are available for many.

Yeah, it's a huge, never-ending burden for parents with such children. But there is some help available (even though it's too often inadequate).

There recently was a good twitter thread too. We're slowly getting better about figuring out how to cope with and help autistic kids.

HTH a little.

Cheers,
Scott.
New Thanks for the Twitter link
The spousette will be interested. Ever since she prevailed in her marathon Ninth Circuit case, she finds that opposing firms—special education law is a relatively small community—know they can’t steamroll her, and she tends to win better settlements for her clients with less pushback. She’s quite ardent about helping these children.

cordially,
     “Facilitated” - (rcareaga) - (7)
         definitely a public charge -NT - (boxley)
         Re: “Facilitated” - (pwhysall) - (3)
             Quite. - (static)
             Amen! - (a6l6e6x) - (1)
                 Re: Amen! - (dmcarls)
         My brother is autistic. - (Another Scott) - (1)
             Thanks for the Twitter link - (rcareaga)

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