Possibly Copenhagen, though I have no current info on how it goes there.
The Dutch have tried being civilized, even to ungrateful strung-out wretches who figure that the world must adapt to their idiosyncrasies. It ain't perfect (for the idiosyncratic); and they may be tiring of the social experiment. You can get arrested, but you won't be beaten or installed in a Corporate-run prison - as is more and more apt to be the case in the US (CA now spending more for new Profit-making prisons than schools.)
English is spoken by (enough people) there and, she'll find kindred spirits - whom she can eventually feel superior to, as she snaps out of her solipsism: she will, if there's basically an OK brain underneath all those layers of peer BS. She would find kids her age who have paid a bit more attention and have been educated quite better than her US peers, along the way. She may even come to like this change - and actually want to stay somewhere in Euro (?) after a return to sentient behavior.
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Ashton