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New I don't think flowers and cakes for weddings rise that high.
I mean, just step back a few thousand paces. Do we really want a society that has federal lawsuits over cakes and flowers for weddings? The florist, at least, was apparently NOT treating the gay couple any differently ("long time customers") until asked to provide flowers for a wedding. If that's all it takes to rise to the level of a federal lawsuit, $DEITY help us.
New So it's a different in magnitude, not kind?
Regards,
-scott
Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson.
New I don't think so.
"I don't want to make your wedding cake" and "I don't want to supply flowers for your wedding" are not equivalent, imo, to discrimination against the individuals. Particularly in light of the fact that (at least as concerns the florist) the couple in question could purchase flowers for any other reason. If its discrimination of any sort, it is discrimination against same-sex weddings, not homosexuality per se. I just cannot see that rising to a civil rights trespass.
New If they stick to the...
If the "vendors" stick to the "I don't want to make your wedding cake" and "I don't want to supply flowers for your wedding" and completely hold their tongue at that, I've really got really *ZERO PROBLEM WITH THAT*

As soon as they trot that "additional part" -- "because you are Gay/Lesbian/Black/Inuit/Chinese/1912-Baptist-Reform/Muslim" THAT is when we gots problems.

Learn to bite your tongue and you can be a closet case of Anti-something all you want. Keep your ignorance to your self.
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greg@gregfolkert.net
"No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible." --Stanislaw Jerzy Lec
New You mean ...
You can hold whatever homophobic views you want, just don't keep shoving it my face? :-D
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Drew
New Yes...
But the simplified version wasn't clear enough.

I wanted to be somewhat explicit.
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greg@gregfolkert.net
"No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible." --Stanislaw Jerzy Lec
New The baker may have.
A lesbian couple went to Sweet Cakes, a Gresham, Ore., bakery Jan. 17 to order their wedding cake, but said they were told the bakery didn't serve same-sex marriages.

http://abcnews.go.co...story?id=18922065
New These people are ignorant fools.
Keep your racial/homo/religio phobias to yourself and wallow in your self-righteousness all by your lonesome.

If you serve the public... and are not a closed resource... you get to follow the public laws.

What are we... in the 50s where only whites get to sit at the counter?
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greg@gregfolkert.net
"No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible." --Stanislaw Jerzy Lec
New Hmm, nope.
If its discrimination of any sort, it is discrimination against same-sex weddings, not homosexuality per se.


The proprietor also stated he would not be willing to sell a cake to a gay couple that wanted a civil union or a commitment ceremony, either. At that point it's quite obvious the problem is with homosexuality and not just same-sex marriage, as from a religious standpoint there's no "marriage" involved in either of those two cases.
Regards,
-scott
Welcome to Rivendell, Mr. Anderson.
     No one here I know of agrees with me on this. - (mmoffitt) - (176)
         Public accommodations laws. - (Another Scott) - (23)
             Are we really that weak? - (mmoffitt) - (22)
                 won't sell to blacks natives and rceaga - (boxley) - (14)
                     And don't forget suspected commies! -NT - (Andrew Grygus) - (1)
                         Actually, I'd be okay with that. - (mmoffitt)
                     Nope. Thanks for herring. -NT - (mmoffitt) - (11)
                         either you are a public establishment or a key club - (boxley) - (10)
                             Dupe - ignore. -NT - (mmoffitt)
                             I don't think flowers and cakes for weddings rise that high. - (mmoffitt) - (8)
                                 So it's a different in magnitude, not kind? -NT - (malraux) - (7)
                                     I don't think so. - (mmoffitt) - (6)
                                         If they stick to the... - (folkert) - (4)
                                             You mean ... - (drook) - (1)
                                                 Yes... - (folkert)
                                             The baker may have. - (mmoffitt) - (1)
                                                 These people are ignorant fools. - (folkert)
                                         Hmm, nope. - (malraux)
                 What's wrong with treating people equally? - (Another Scott) - (6)
                     I guess the difference for me was the purpose. - (mmoffitt) - (5)
                         yeah, like shoving that handicapped thing in your face - (boxley) - (3)
                             How many handicapped persons got married at the Grammy's? - (mmoffitt) - (2)
                                 how many handicapped at the grammies? :-) -NT - (boxley) - (1)
                                     There are some mentally challenged! :) -NT - (a6l6e6x)
                         Homosexuality *is* normal, you doofus. - (pwhysall)
         Replace the word "gay" with "black" and see how it flies - (pwhysall) - (5)
             Nice try. Assumes facts not in evidence. -NT - (mmoffitt) - (4)
                 Incorrect. - (pwhysall) - (3)
                     In public institutions, no. - (mmoffitt) - (2)
                         They're not private if they're public. - (pwhysall) - (1)
                             What about if the door sign is posted... - (folkert)
         Of course, the Arizona business community has . . . - (Andrew Grygus)
         Here's the probolem (goining meta) - (drook) - (8)
             Unpossible!!11 -NT - (Another Scott)
             Heh. - (mmoffitt) - (6)
                 Is it ok for a waiter in a restaurant to refuse a request? - (crazy) - (5)
                     That's not the case here. Here's a better analogy. - (mmoffitt) - (4)
                         and your answer is? -NT - (crazy) - (3)
                             I'm not a fan of Compulsory Participation in Rituals. ;0) -NT - (mmoffitt) - (2)
                                 It is not a ritual. - (folkert)
                                 Who invited participation? - (crazy)
         Judge's ruling. - (Another Scott) - (21)
             Their argument was weak. But so was the judge's. - (mmoffitt) - (20)
                 No. It compels them to treat them like any other customer. - (Another Scott) - (19)
                     That's a little disingenous. - (mmoffitt) - (18)
                         Please enumerate all the services that represent endorsement - (drook) - (9)
                             There's a reason why I didn't take the bait. - (mmoffitt) - (8)
                                 Why? - (drook) - (7)
                                     10%? Update your stats. - (mmoffitt) - (6)
                                         Another half-step back - (drook) - (1)
                                             Bzzzzt. Wrong. - (mmoffitt)
                                         Try again. - (malraux) - (3)
                                             Good catch. Well said. -NT - (Another Scott)
                                             They did, however, - (mmoffitt) - (1)
                                                 Already covered that. - (malraux)
                         Having a business isn't a right. - (Another Scott) - (7)
                             But Free Speech is. - (mmoffitt) - (6)
                                 Lots of "speech" is restricted for businesses. - (Another Scott)
                                 why would you have a problem with that? - (boxley) - (3)
                                     Is it the Buddhists that had it the same way? I forget. -NT - (mmoffitt) - (2)
                                         no, it was the nazi's that flipped it -NT - (boxley) - (1)
                                             Ah. Thanks! -NT - (mmoffitt)
                                 "No. I do not want to participate in that." FULL STOP - (folkert)
         Gotta give him credit - (rcareaga) - (20)
             Re: Gotta give him credit - (pwhysall) - (19)
                 You must be new here? -NT - (scoenye) - (2)
                     rofl! -NT - (Another Scott)
                     as AS puts it... - (folkert)
                 Actually, he does have a rational viewpoint - (crazy) - (15)
                     So... that is what they call it... - (folkert) - (9)
                         Unnatural? - (crazy) - (8)
                             No... - (folkert) - (7)
                                 To close to reality, but not - (crazy) - (6)
                                     Well... - (folkert) - (5)
                                         ok, I can accept that - (crazy) - (4)
                                             So you're light in the loafers -NT - (drook) - (3)
                                                 I wish - (crazy) - (1)
                                                     Re: I wish - (pwhysall)
                                                 Re: So you're light in the loafers - (rcareaga)
                     The Slate piece is larger in Scale than this smaller topic. - (Ashton) - (4)
                         If I have such a bias, I am unaware of it. - (mmoffitt) - (3)
                             Re: "a business oriented problem" - (a6l6e6x) - (2)
                                 Indeed. :0) - (mmoffitt) - (1)
                                     Who (first) said..? "The people is an ass." - (Ashton)
         And this is why people FIGHT with you on the issue - (crazy) - (1)
             Yup. Also... - (Another Scott)
         I'm going to try a different tack - (pwhysall) - (16)
             I don't think it contributes, but I don't think it detracts. - (mmoffitt) - (15)
                 again, let's do that 100% valid thought experiment - (pwhysall) - (14)
                     Don't get hung up on "normal". - (mmoffitt) - (13)
                         nonsense - (pwhysall) - (12)
                             Normal is the wrong word. - (mmoffitt) - (11)
                                 Blue eyes are "atypical". Being over 2 meters tall is also. - (Another Scott) - (5)
                                     Sigh. The erosion of rights troubles me. - (mmoffitt) - (4)
                                         Businesses . are . different. - (Another Scott) - (3)
                                             Weddings.Are.Not.People. - (mmoffitt) - (2)
                                                 (One more thing) Read the judge's decision again. - (Another Scott) - (1)
                                                     42. ;0) -NT - (mmoffitt)
                                 then maybe find a profession that does not serve the public? - (boxley) - (4)
                                     No, that is NOT okay. - (mmoffitt) - (3)
                                         what if 2 gay men went in? I would assume the same reaction - (boxley) - (2)
                                             It isn't. I never said it was. - (mmoffitt) - (1)
                                                 Oh... - (folkert)
         Plan C - (pwhysall) - (1)
             Unpossible!!11 - (Another Scott)
         Sullivan(!) puts mmoffitt's case a bit more cogently - (rcareaga) - (7)
             Re: Sullivan(!) puts mmoffitt's case a bit more cogently - (pwhysall) - (2)
                 I'm sorry Monsiur, we are booked -NT - (boxley)
                 I'm actually susceptible to the argument that - (rcareaga)
             Thanks. - (mmoffitt) - (3)
                 Here's another gobbet of raw meat - (rcareaga) - (2)
                     Er, what? - (mmoffitt)
                     lrpd that last sentence -NT - (boxley)
         how about a slightly different twist - (boxley) - (1)
             see 386792 - (folkert)
         Even Republicans backing out. - (Andrew Grygus) - (2)
             I think that's due more to the threat of a loss of business. -NT - (mmoffitt) - (1)
                 Good. Let them lose the superbowl. -NT - (crazy)
         I've reviewed this whole damn thread again - (rcareaga) - (5)
             Deep in the closet - (crazy) - (4)
                 too easy - (rcareaga) - (3)
                     awww, dammit - (crazy) - (1)
                         Hey! I'm 'old' too, mofo - (Ashton)
                     It's not a phobia. - (mmoffitt)
         mmoffitt! Georgia agrees with you! - (rcareaga) - (47)
             Jeez, they're missing a whole new Enemy to persecute-- - (Ashton) - (1)
                 that taint news -NT - (boxley)
             No, they don't. I thought I'd made this clear. - (mmoffitt) - (42)
                 "I am opposed to wholesale discrimination." - (crazy) - (41)
                     I am not surprised. -NT - (mmoffitt) - (40)
                         Well, that's what it is. -NT - (pwhysall) - (39)
                             I may not agree with you. - (mmoffitt) - (38)
                                 You don't have to agree - - (pwhysall) - (37)
                                     The general form of that ... - (drook)
                                     Again with the misstatement of my position. - (mmoffitt) - (33)
                                         That may be your position - (malraux) - (4)
                                             Then he has an indefensible position. And THANK YOU! - (mmoffitt) - (3)
                                                 El dupo. -NT - (malraux) - (1)
                                                 That's your problem in this thread - (malraux) - (1)
                                                     -999,999 for me for clarity then. -NT - (mmoffitt)
                                         Conflation of SSM with Klan and Neo-Nazi rallies? - (pwhysall) - (26)
                                             Reductio ad absurdum. - (mmoffitt) - (25)
                                                 Whatever. - (pwhysall) - (24)
                                                     Nitpick much? Substitute a Crips or Bloods rally then. -NT - (mmoffitt) - (23)
                                                         Re: Nitpick much? Substitute a Crips or Bloods rally then. - (pwhysall) - (22)
                                                             Okay, so I assumed something not proven, but likely. - (mmoffitt) - (21)
                                                                 The second reply to you in this thread pointed that out - (drook) - (20)
                                                                     It's not the same thing. - (mmoffitt) - (19)
                                                                         Stanford study from 1995. - (Another Scott) - (15)
                                                                             Read the follow-up studies over the past 20 years. - (mmoffitt) - (14)
                                                                                 Point me to a cite, please. - (Another Scott) - (13)
                                                                                     That's not how that works. - (mmoffitt) - (12)
                                                                                         Eh? - (Another Scott) - (1)
                                                                                             thats the prove there is no gawd argument :-) -NT - (boxley)
                                                                                         So... when did you CHOOSE to be heterosexual? - (folkert) - (9)
                                                                                             This is my last on this, and only because I like you & Scott - (mmoffitt) - (8)
                                                                                                 What's the hypothesis, here? - (pwhysall) - (7)
                                                                                                     Re: what would attract you to this line of investigation? - (mmoffitt) - (3)
                                                                                                         exactly, - (boxley) - (1)
                                                                                                             Um. - (mmoffitt)
                                                                                                         So you want to check whether it still is a mental illness? -NT - (pwhysall)
                                                                                                     If we must keep this up, new thread please? -NT - (drook)
                                                                                                     Because if it an illness, it might be fixable or prevented - (crazy) - (1)
                                                                                                         New. Thread. Please. -NT - (drook)
                                                                         So, when did you choose to be Hetero-Sexual? -NT - (folkert)
                                                                         Either way, it doesn't matter. - (malraux) - (1)
                                                                             Concur. -NT - (mmoffitt)
                                         I think I get your position - (boxley)
                                     Well, we could be the Flat Earth Society! :) -NT - (a6l6e6x) - (1)
                                         Flat? FLAT? Everyone knows it's hyperbolic saddle-shaped! -NT - (pwhysall)
             well, there goes the gay black men convention in Atlanta -NT - (boxley) - (1)
                 Then ... let them eat cake! - (Ashton)
         Arizona Governor Vetoes Bill on Refusal of Service to Gays - (Ashton)
         Story behind the AZ (and other states) bill - (Another Scott) - (2)
             So every judge is now a member of the clergy ... OK -NT - (drook)
             Thanks ~~what I'd imagined: textbook religio-anarchy. Again. -NT - (Ashton)
         You got a buddy - (crazy)

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