So apparently the moral point stories like, say, _Cinderella_[*] make is still true. That is, I mean, if we all *really* thought that it's just as much a tragedy when it happens to an ugly little kid -- and who here will claim that it isn't? (Perhaps even more, come to think of it) -- then we wouldn't say stuff like that.
(No, Mike, not an attack on you personally, just a reflection on something I'm pretty sure we all do. I do it too; that doesn't make it less wrong.)
[*]: Or whatever, I may be getting my fairy tales mixed up. But not, anyway, _The Ugly Duckling_; I think Andersen must have been an unthinking goodlookist bigot.