I imagine (have never witnessed it) a gay event, with a gay speaker, giving some type of speech to rile the crowd up. He'll do some history, he'll point out the repression and deaths, and he'll be pissed. He'll list the large array of anti-gay people who turned out gay.
He'll then produce a list of current opponents of gay rights, and possibly "accuse" them of being gay (remember, to him, being gay is NOT bad).
On the other hand, I HAVE seen many on the other side tell their people that gay people are simply deviants, EVIL, that way by choice, who need to be cast out of society, and if they refuse to go it is ok to physically harm them and sometimes kill them.
In our country we have the concept of free speech. Dunno about yours.
Note: I say concept because it doesn't always work out that way.
The 1st example is perfectly permissible. The 2nd is not.
The 1st is a harmless (really, HARMLESS) example. Or at least it should be. If gay people aren't targeted for violence or second class citizenship, than the accusation of being gay should be about as bad as saying (hey peter, thanks for the example that I'm now warping) "You are evil for liking new Star Trek, I like old Star Trek."
The 2nd example is a call to arms to inflict pain on people for no reason.
So while I may have a hint of understanding what you are saying, I'm not sure where it is going, and when you say: "The clue", you are forcing me to imagine. And my imagination does NOT map to you or the context you live in.
And as far as "not interested", so, change the channel. Do you react AGAINST other things you aren't interested in? You are interested, it affects some portion of your life. If you weren't, I don't think you'd have such a firm opinion on the matter.
I have no opinion of baseball. I'm not interested in it. It screws up an occasional show I want to watch, so it does affect me. It also adds to traffic. So it does affect me. So it annoys me. Hey, I have an opinion. I didn't think I did when I started writing this, really. Not an opinion on an individual team or player, I'm not qualified, but an opinion on how the sport in general affects me.
I'm interested in the scheduling aspects of baseball. But I am not going to make a public comment on the badness of all of it. It has positive aspects for some people. My sysadmin loves his baseball. He lives for it. His positive viewpoint on baseball screws up scheduling activity at work.
Wow, baseball directly harms my ability to make an income. I really don't like baseball at all now.
How many more steps until I make it evil? Steroids! Done. Bad examples for little kids. Peer pressure. uh oh. Gay sex in locker rooms. Abolish it!