1) If you believe there is no such thing as a free lunch.
2) If you believe that we need government.
3) If you believe that "to spend is to tax".
4) If you believe that it's more efficient in times of GDP expansion to be close to a balanced budget since interest costs are less.
Then a certain amount of money needs to be collected in taxes. If some types of income are not taxed (or are taxed at lower rates), or if some categories of income are excluded or have preferential treatment, then the rest of the tax base must make up the difference.
If Congress does not use the same types of procedures to evaluate tax deductions as tax increases, then tax deductions get preferential treatment.
All of this, taken together, means that yes Virginia there is "spending in the tax code".
Your personal feelings about it don't stand up to scrutiny. You might want to review the "Why I hate your freedom" FAQ mentioned yesterday for more reasons why.
Cheers,
Scott.