As Ben pointed out, I was replying to the second paragraph of Andy's post.

In the third para, which you are talking about, Andy and his kid had no problem when the boy was thirteen (provided some reasonable precautions were taken). But, more *fundamentally*... there Andy only talks about an anonymous "pressure from behind" -- where the fuck is the guy I was saying "had a point", in *that*?!? Don't try to sign me any signs, bubba -- you just got it wrong; be a man, admit it, and let us all get over it.


Oh, and go to that concert, take your big young son with you, and have fun! :-)