but if you keep up with phrase like "whining about how there is no Truth", you're not going to make this any easier.

I was thinking last night about how to explain to you that even your and my own "reality"/"truth" is conditional. I came up with an idea which follows.

Please allow me to ask a few questions.
1. Is $3.00 a lot of money?
2. If you just put $20,000 in your account, is $3.00 a lot of money?
3. If you are broke, and you haven't eaten, and you have to wait a day for payday, is $3.00 a lot of money?
4. If you are broke, and you haven't eaten, and you have to wait a week for payday, is $3.00 a lot of money?

Notice a few things. $3.00 is a constant. Your value system is "your" value system. What is the truth... Is $3.00 a lot of money?

Take your time...