usually the whiners are the ones that are spilling out the truth left and right. They are the ones hurt by the lies and the wrongs that have been done.

Face facts, if everyone always did the right thing, it would be a perfect world. But because not everyone does the right thing, and people do sin, we need religion to forgive ourselves. That is why Jesus came to forgive people, because everyone has sinned in some way. Because of this, nobody is really 100% innocent unless they were just born, or are divine in some way (like Jesus, his mother Mary, etc) because they were born without sin.

I do what I think is right, not everyone will agree with me that what I do is right. Like complaining on public forums about how bad my life is. I just felt it was the right thing to do, and seek the opinions of others to see just what are my options, what I can do about it, and also this is how a document things in case I do die and someone wants to know why and what happened to my last days?