*I* must confess that even now, after all the years I've been on this board (and other more or less, or much less, similar places on the 'Net), people's views on what exactly constitutes "vehemence" continue to genuinely surprise *me*.
Really, honestly: What, exactly, is particularly "vehement" about
Huh?!??
What the fuck do you think this is?
You want to have a private conversation with somebody, use a private communication medium, like e-mail.
I don't see it.