she's playing nice nice in order to fuck you over. Easist thing is this, if she rattles you up it hurts your marriage. Either the hubby will be pissed off at you that you are letting her get to you or he will be inadvertantly involved thru no action he saw coming. (Men are dumb that way) The only way you win in this is a disarming "Oh really? How quaint" and NEVER, EVER show that it got to you even if you lose your home, husband and friends. Thats how you win.

Thanks, I think so too. But John won't be mad at me, he does understand what she's pulled in the past... heck she snowed him and many others for 4 years until he finally saw her true colors and ended the friendship, permanently.

I think she's pulled a Orion trick, made a new ID and integrated herself into Affinity, and I also think she might be dating a guy from the old BBS who recently returned. And he might not even REALIZE the connection to us.

I haven't tipped my hand that I suspect this, other than here, and I don't think she can find here.... God, I hope not.

Someone using her ID also IMed another member of my group last night.

good luck and since many of us have seen a lot, give details that are not specific, maybe we can help.

Hope that was some details, if you need more let me know. Main thing I have to do is not overreact, or tip my hand too soon, I have to wait and see, but man, that's hard.

Brenda