aint nobodies bidness how you and hubby get along or not, you dont have to justify yourself because in the long run you aint gonna hookup with any of these mooks if something happens to John and in the short run it aint their bidness. Now If you bring up "hubby sed dat an I dont like it" you will get a boatlaod of crap advice, so the best thing is Im married thanx fer askin, no I dont do internet dates, next question and keep John out of it.
sheesh,
daemon