There never will be a problem, unless you develop an opinion

Post #182,956 by ben_tilly 11/4/04 9:40:07 PM Reply	There never will be a problem, unless you develop an opinion of your own. Then there will be a problem because you won't know what to do with such a strange beast. Cheers, Ben I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
Post #182,989 by Nightowl 11/5/04 12:16:58 AM Reply	I have plenty of my own opinions. And we sit down and discuss anything that is really important to me, and when possible, we work out a compromise. The biggest problem about the site I wanted to be on, is it seems really unreliable and wants way too much information for me to just be able to read things. It bothers me too, I just wish I could find a way to get in contact with someone on it, so that maybe they could update me when the updates aren't there (sometimes the site owner fails to get the updates in the public area, and then they wind up in the non-public area. But hey, I cope. :) I think the part that you don't all realize, maybe, is that John and I work everything out ahead of time, when possible. We have sat down and discussed how to handle various things in our marriage, including finances, internet, and etc. I trust him to have better knowledge of certain things, and he trusts me to have better knowledge of others. :) It works. Brenda "It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends." (Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown).
Post #182,993 by Another Scott 11/5/04 12:30:10 AM Reply	Does the site have a name?
Post #182,994 by Nightowl 11/5/04 12:45:43 AM 11/5/04 12:53:46 AM Reply	Re: Does the site have a name? Yes, it's called Toni's Spoiler Site. It's for The Young And The Restless, so I figured you wouldn't be interested in what it was, sorry. It's based in Canada. [link\|http://www.young-restless.com\|http://www.young-restless.com] Edit: I tried hard to locate a place to write an e-mail to the site owner, to ask if there was a way to get in touch with her about it when the updates are in the private section, but I can't seem to locate an email place anywhere on the site,to write her. and the forums seem to be run by different people, who have the questionable policy rules, which bothers John, that it's actually more than one host who would need access to my info if I get on the site itself. Nightowl >8# "It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends." (Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown). Edited by Nightowl Nov. 5, 2004, 12:53:46 AM EST Expand All History
Post #182,996 by Another Scott 11/5/04 12:55:58 AM Reply	<shrug> It looks pretty standard to me. Not my style though.
Post #182,998 by Nightowl 11/5/04 1:16:41 AM Reply	Hehe, I didn't think so But guess what? I went looking for the part that bothered John, (the site had been down for awhile and the privacy part was all screwed up), but instead, I couldn't find that part, but I actually finally FOUND Toni's e-mail address! Yay!!! Persistence is always good, huh? Thanks for asking me about it, I wouldn't have searched again this quick on my own. :) Brenda "It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends." (Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown).

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