Post #182,954
11/4/04 9:38:17 PM
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If you don't want us to read between the lines...
don't try to walk such a fine one.
Edit: P.S. Disclaimer: This post is not about anyone currently posting here, just venting.
That said, I sympathize.
Cheers, Ben
I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
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Post #182,972
11/4/04 11:12:20 PM
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Yeah, I realize that this time...
But I was trying not to mention him. But bottom line, I'm done with Norman, Orion, or whoever the heck he is today. I quit his psycho friends group, and I quit the support group we were both in working on the problems together. I'm sorry, I tried to help him, I tried to be there as a friend, I tried to keep finding the patience, but today was the last straw.
So I'm done. I've washed my fucking hands of him, and he can screw up his life without me there to watch.
Brenda
"It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends." (Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown).
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Post #182,976
11/4/04 11:24:51 PM
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FOWL!
Er, FOUL! 30 yard penalty.
PLEASE, let's not have another thread about NK, okay? I was taught that it's not polite to talk about people behind their back.
If the urge strikes again, please beat it back as you would in pursuit of someone who slashed the tires, smashed the windows, and egged your Furry 3.
Thank you.
Cheers, Scott.
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Post #182,981
11/4/04 11:38:34 PM
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No need to talk behind his back.
He does it himself.
I am sorry Brenda got to this point *I* got to about 1 year ago.
Now, Brenda, nobody can say you didn't try. Try you did.
I have called him, sent him encouragement, called his dad (the Big version I mentioned earlier) and talked with him.
He is Just Plain unreachable anymore. Left field would be WAY closer. Right now, he is in the Wooden benches of the cheap seats of the cheap seats... Hell the barkers don't even go there.
Sorry you are at the point many of us have gotten to with him.
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Post #182,985
11/5/04 12:06:13 AM
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I'm sorry Greg, I didn't mean to
That was why I just posted a general post with no names. I had to scream somewhere, right now he can read it anywhere else. Granted, he can read it here, but he hasn't been here lately, far as I know. I am sorry Brenda got to this point *I* got to about 1 year ago. Now, Brenda, nobody can say you didn't try. Try you did. Thanks, that does help, really. I have called him, sent him encouragement, called his dad (the Big version I mentioned earlier) and talked with him. He is Just Plain unreachable anymore. Left field would be WAY closer. Right now, he is in the Wooden benches of the cheap seats of the cheap seats... Hell the barkers don't even go there. Sorry you are at the point many of us have gotten to with him. Yeah, me too, but I just can't handle the stress of trying and trying anymore. Maybe I'm giving up too soon, but I just don't need it. Anyway, I'm sorry I bothered anyone with it, I just needed to be able to rant a little, rather than post what I was really WANTING to say in their group. It wouldn't have done any good, and I knew that. Thanks for the support, and if he reappears here, all I can say is I'm really really sorry. Brenda
"It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends." (Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown).
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Post #182,999
11/5/04 1:32:24 AM
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Uhmm.....
I am sorry Brenda got to this point *I* got to about 1 year ago.
I believe I tried to tell a lot of you people a couple of years ago that you were nothing more than enablers; that you needed to cut him loose.
I saw this coming a long time ago, but noone wanted to listen. Some people will not be helped and will (maybe not intentionally) try to take you with them. He certainly tried to take this place with him.
Yes, I'm a heartless bastard. BFD. Get over it. We're all better off without him.
Thanks for playing..... drive through....
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Post #183,079
11/5/04 11:58:14 AM
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You weren't the only person doing that...
Some things people really have to learn for themselves.
Cheers, Ben
I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
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Post #183,085
11/5/04 12:19:53 PM
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Yes, yes.
You told us so.
OK, you were (and are) 100% right.
Now piss off, you wanker.
:-D
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Post #183,164
11/5/04 8:35:19 PM
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Excuse me?
Now piss off, you wanker.
I thought I was a colonial baboon. :-D
Make up your fucking mind...... wanker. ;-)
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Post #183,166
11/5/04 8:41:32 PM
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From one colonial baboon to another
You're a wanker. Now piss off.
Ben
I have come to believe that idealism without discipline is a quick road to disaster, while discipline without idealism is pointless. -- Aaron Ward (my brother)
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Post #183,167
11/5/04 8:47:53 PM
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You've got a better chance of the Second Coming. :-)
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Post #182,988
11/5/04 12:07:21 AM
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I apologize, Scott.
There's really nothing to have a thread about anyway. I just wanted to scream and vent somewhere relatively safe.
I'm done with him, so there's nothing to discuss.
Brenda
"It's not where a person stands in time of comfort and security, but rather where they stand in times of strife and controversy that determine true friends." (Quote sent to me by a true friend, author unknown).
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