So, let's see.
Breaks daddy's thing - minor, probably not worth even a good talking-to
Disappears from a place he was supposed to be. Major infraction, at least some grounding time.
Brings a horde to his house w/o asking his parent's permission, turns the house into a pub for his friends. Weeel, if that's not utter lack of respect, I don't know what is. Somebody got to pay.
And to top it off, he breaks something important(*) (unlike the first item), something he was not suposed to touch. And he _lies_ about it. This is extraordinary. May be too late for phiysical punshment at 13, but the one used by parents is quite fitting. I would do something similar or worse. This kid needs to learn about consequences.
* - important, not just expensive.