I promise you that
if you are willing to get down to straight talk without the classic emotional bullshit that is so often characteristic in your 'delightful' posts. We will make progress.
I have no doubt we can both nail each other on indiscretions it is the fabricated crap delivered interspersed with parental emotion that becomes the problem.
I look forward to you responding again in the same 'unemotional' manner you just did (I *was* impressed). That may allow us both to get down to the core issues & away from the smokescreen of gargantuan emotion & abuse that characterises some of the repartee from the past.
Doug M