who live in a country where pornography is a $10 billion-a-year business
What's the difference between "Erotica" and "Pornography"? I don't think anybody has come up with a good definition that a majority will agree with. The best one I've ever heard came from Hugh Hefner years ago: "What turns me on is erotica; what turns you on is pornography."
In this case, I side with your word of pornography because of the situation and people being forced to participate against their will. In the USA, the erotica industry is overwhelmingly populated with willing participants.