The basis of my argument is a desire to have and live in a productive culture. A culture that can't properly inhabit the masculine and feminine principles equally will die.
A similar thing happens with self/shadow splits - the Nazis, for example, identified their "self" with Aryan perfection, and so projected their "shadow" onto Jews and outcasts. We know the results. Anima/animus problems are not as dire but they do lead to sterility. The creative faculty needs inspiration tempered by judgement to generate ideas (masculine) and then needs feeling tempered by sensation to give them form (feminine). A society with "female issues" coming from a warped anima image will be safety obsessed, unable to create new things,and obsessed with "relating", be it by sex, prison, corporate work, politics... One with "male issues" will be unable to properly structure creative energy, and so obsessed with "newness", be it by nomadic wandering, pillaging and plunder, short-term plans without regard for permanence of effectiveness.
Thus - the ultimate reason feminism and HS repel me, is that they are sterile and inherently moribund.
It has nothing whatsoever to do with "homophobia" (what a stupid word). It has to do with "ambiphilia" - love of balance.