Ok to eliminate possible bad hardware and bad CDR disks and bad CD-ROM drives I decided to do an experiment.
It will be on my laptop with a trial of VMWare for Windows and a Debian Network install CD ISO image. The emulation environment should provide a much more stable hardware support, and the network install will eliminate the bad CDRs and bad CD-ROM drives. If it works I will look into the academic license of VMWare as I am a college student. Also maybe I can install Debian this way on my 98SE machine, or have a better idea of what to do when deSitter talks me through a network install of SuSE or whatever.
I see it as a learning experience, no need to have a non-working system with a half-baked install. This way I can learn how it is done right.