Where you advocated infidelity is...
in [link|http://z.iwethey.org/forums/render/content/show?contentid=135775|http://z.iwethey.org...?contentid=135775] where you say, Marriage should not be primarily about humping, and indeed in a better society, people could allow themselves to maintain a stable family while obtaining their humpage elsewhere, should it be necessary.
If a married couple is "obtaining their humpage elsewhere", then that is marital infidelity in most people's books.
Cheers,
Ben
"good ideas and bad code build communities, the other three combinations do not"
- [link|http://archives.real-time.com/pipermail/cocoon-devel/2000-October/003023.html|Stefano Mazzocchi]