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New The duality of man
or of woman. It is a philosophic idea that people have the potential for good and bad within them. That thought maybe that Descarte thought it up, but the Geeks and Hindus may have thought about it first.

Everyone has a dark side, some can hide it better than others. Every human is a sinner or at least thinks of sin, with the exception of Jesus and his mother Mary as Christianity teaches. All others fall short.

What is evil? Damion Thorne in "Omen 3: The Final Conflict" said that "Sometimes evil can be as pure as good." to a reporter. It is believed that people and animals can be born evil with an evil nature or evil personality. Yet still, somewhere inside them, is the potential to do good. The choice is up to them to decide. Some people choose evil by choosing to be selfish and only think of themselves and feel that rules and laws don't apply to them. A person like that may end up a rapist or a bank robber or a gangster. They are the dark types.

On the other hand, some people or animals are born good with good personalities. The potential for evil lies within them, and they must choose to do good or evil. Sometimes they do evil without thinking about it, it may be unintentional. They try to think of others, and do things for the common good. Mother Theresa and Lady Di and Pope John Paul II are examples of good people. People are drawn to good people because of the goodness within them. They are the light types.

There are people and animals that are mixed, both good and evil depending on the situation. These are the average people. Doing good one day and doing bad the next. Maybe helping someone out on Monday, and then cheating on their taxes on Tuesday. They are sitting on a fence trying to decide to be good or evil. Sometimes they just don't think about it and randomly do good and evil things. These are the grey types.

Now a dark type may resent a light type because their personalities clash. The light type may attract a dark type, and the dark type hates the light type and takes what he/she wants. In this case, a rape and murder.

Usually you can tell a dark type by the way they treat other people, most of the time anyway. Are they being mean to a waitress who is just doing her job? Are they yelling at somebody else for an accident that could have happened to anyone? If they treat other people this way, what about you? I've seen abusive relationships happen, and then the light person doesn't want to break up with the dark person. They just continue to take the abuse, when anyone else would have just walked out on the relationship. Not sure why but light is also attracted to dark. Scary.



"Lady I only speak two languages, English and Bad English!" - Corbin Dallas "The Fifth Element"

New Re: The duality of man
I was thinking about this last night, and remembered something else.

See, Norman is right about every person having both dark and light inside them, because that is what being human is about. But I remembered something else about dark and light.

Sometimes one can win over the other, you see. And either one has the potential to do it. Before I learned to control my anger, and express it better in words and other ways, I used to scream and yell and rant, and yes, CUSS, a lot. I used to regularly do this at my mom and ex-fiance, both of who screamed back.

I used to break things, once I beat two telephones to death on the floor, stomp my feet, etc.

Now I have a different anger response. I have not had a reaction like those above in years. Now I stop, think about what the anger is telling me, and what I need to do to help myself cope with it, and then I respond in a more rational fashion.

And whenever I feel like I'll be out of control, I remember those two broken telephones, and do whatever I can to stop myself.

So in my case, the light won. I had the anger inside, pushed down, hidden inside until it made me physically sick. Then I was told to express it or be sicker. And I spent years learning how, first the wrong way, and then finally, ultimately, in the right way.

Nightowl >8#
"The difference between being immature and child-like is that one is what you are, and one is what you choose to be."

Comment by Nightowl {O,O}
New Nothing wrong with anger
it is in how you express that anger that makes the difference. Throwing fits and breaking stuff is not the way to go. Holding it inside also does not help, it can only make you sick. Finding a creative way to express your anger is the way to go. Some people do art projects, or hit a punching bag, or exercise, or mow the lawn, or write a letter or journal expressing their feelings, or just talk it out with a friend or relative in a calm way. Anger is a natrual emotion, you cannot prevent it, but you can change your actions.

Some people use anger to flame others on forums. Hence the FQ forum was born. ;)



"Lady I only speak two languages, English and Bad English!" - Corbin Dallas "The Fifth Element"

New Re: Nothing wrong with anger
Exactly, it's how you express it, and I've gotten a lot better. It's made a world of difference in my life, too. :)

Nightowl >8#
"The difference between being immature and child-like is that one is what you are, and one is what you choose to be."

Comment by Nightowl {O,O}
     Does light attract dark? - (deSitter) - (13)
         The duality of man - (orion) - (3)
             Re: The duality of man - (Nightowl) - (2)
                 Nothing wrong with anger - (orion) - (1)
                     Re: Nothing wrong with anger - (Nightowl)
         Re: Does light attract dark? - (JayMehaffey) - (4)
             Been there, done that.... - (Nightowl) - (3)
                 Re: Been there, done that.... - (deSitter) - (2)
                     If that isn't ironic - (Nightowl) - (1)
                         Understandable for both. - (Ashton)
         It does, but for different reasons - (Arkadiy) - (3)
             Experiment: - (Ashton) - (2)
                 Oh no, not just the opposites - (Arkadiy) - (1)
                     Ah, you mean.. in '08 or is it '12 -NT - (Ashton)

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