now rendered clearer by your example.
"They only give one point". Though it would 'prove' nothing (like those silly Mars/Venus books) - I can think of events where, simply one small act, spontaneous! (not premeditated 'for effect'- like flowers yada yada) - has been remembered for a lifetime. + OR -. Spontaneity reveals, most often: What Really (You Are Like).
The generalizations are simply too flawed and too broad. Ex: The idea of character, for just one. Your pilot guy quantifies this in a Guy-way (while we're foolishly generalizing). This is the essence of 'digital-think', methinks.
A typ female (while we're foolishly generalizing) - tends to evaluate, and also re-evaluate character - which is a Quality-type characteristic, not Quantity. One Courageous Act! can easily render meaningless.. a bevy of annoying habits of the day-day kind. This is the kind of stuff IMhO - more women Get.. than Men, in my entire experience. (A euphemism always used: "girls mature socially faster than boys" == that ain't the HALF of it!)
CPAs, Repos, those with Only-'techno' training (which many mistake to be an EdjaKayshun, in recent decade) - love to reduce the unfathomable complexities of life events and of every separate personality: into {ugh} numbers. The Spreadsheet is the litmus: find who Loves That -?- and you gots yer Faith in Quantities over the {ugh} Quality/environment! produced by focussing on. bottom. lines. Period. {cha cha cha}
Betrayal too, is about that character-thing - what's the latest divorce rate? A number-besotted partner never Can fathom Why it is: he/she has decided that she/he is no longer to be Trusted (to give a rather common example of guaranteed miscommunication - thus creating the Blame Game). "My wife/husband doesn't understand me". Thus sayest they.
Boys are too busy (just being sure they Are 'busy') while growing up, racing around with mechanical toys etc. - to ever stop and smell those archetypal Roses. Being alone: primal fear - but much more-so in boys. Note how little value our (male-dominated) culture places upon Solitude!. QED
But girls have smelled the Roses from Day1. (and of course there are the usual Gaussian Exceptions - even 180\ufffd) When I seek a character assessment (corroboration or correction) - I know where I'll go First - and generally it won't be to a motorcycle 'buddy'. Or a CPA of any gender. Or - -
Ashton
PS - IMO, a major part of the visceral hatred of wanna-be Macho Guys\ufffd VS Queers: is that the "interior decorator" stereotype connotes much more than just an appreciation for color, shapes, Art! in a life - it also means a much greater ability to communicate (!) with Regular Females, for having acquired such sensibilities. There is always Envy behind irrational [hah] Hatred. But I digress - so won't dredge of a local story illustrating this phenom. (And yes, I Have come to accept that the male-chromosome is inherently 'organically defective' - and It Shows. cf WARZ.)