My phrase for this war is from the press
'The chick got in the way'
What else can one say. So *many* women, children & men just got in the way !.
Spectres from our past: Beware the future when your children & theirs come after you for what you may have been willing to condone today - dsm 2003
Motivational: When performing activities, ask yourself if the person you most want to be would do, or say, it - dsm 2003