the literature/education makes it more likely that the kids will turn out gay?
Any evidence that that is the case?
The most toxic person I've had to deal with in the last 5 years (guy made a very serious effort to destroy my wife's costume business, as far as I can tell out of sheer spite. Failed only because he's screwed so many people (and I don't mean sexualy) lately that his suggestions not to deal with Kim backfired.) is probably that way because he's a raging homophobe. And openly gay. Self esteem is overhyped, but self loathing is quite toxic, and not just to the individual involved.