Going to read the article you posted..
I connect to work from via PPTP (win2k>win2k). In the preferences, you can turn off the default gateway switch (like the redbook article says) and add your own routes using the command line. I have to connect to a host that's visible from our internal LAN, but on a different network, via telnetso I just add a route to that host after making the VPN connection as below. Also, I want to be able to surf, ssh out other shell accounts, etc without all my traffic going across the work network (I can't ssh out through our firewall at work..but I can FTP..). When this is done, I use my home LAN and connection for everything except what's on the 172.30.x.x network, and the one 192.168.204.12 host
C:\\>route print
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Interface List
0x1 ........................... MS TCP Loopback interface
0x1000003 ...00 d0 59 2e ca 8c ...... Intel(R) PRO Adapter
0x2000004 ...00 53 45 00 00 00 ...... WAN (PPP/SLIP) Interface
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Active Routes:
Network Destination Netmask Gateway Interface Metric
0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 192.168.100.1 192.168.100.114 1
127.0.0.0 255.0.0.0 127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 1
172.30.0.0 255.255.0.0 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
172.30.12.248 255.255.255.255 127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 1
172.30.12.254 255.255.255.255 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
172.30.255.255 255.255.255.255 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
192.168.100.0 255.255.255.0 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
192.168.100.114 255.255.255.255 127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 1
192.168.100.255 255.255.255.255 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
208.2.155.4 255.255.255.255 192.168.100.1 192.168.100.114 1
224.0.0.0 224.0.0.0 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
224.0.0.0 224.0.0.0 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
Default Gateway: 192.168.100.1
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Persistent Routes:
None
C:\\>route add 192.168.204.12 mask 255.255.255.255 172.30.12.248
C:\\>route print
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Interface List
0x1 ........................... MS TCP Loopback interface
0x1000003 ...00 d0 59 2e ca 8c ...... Intel(R) PRO Adapter
0x2000004 ...00 53 45 00 00 00 ...... WAN (PPP/SLIP) Interface
===========================================================================
===========================================================================
Active Routes:
Network Destination Netmask Gateway Interface Metric
0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 192.168.100.1 192.168.100.114 1
127.0.0.0 255.0.0.0 127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 1
172.30.0.0 255.255.0.0 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
172.30.12.248 255.255.255.255 127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 1
172.30.12.254 255.255.255.255 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
172.30.255.255 255.255.255.255 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
192.168.100.0 255.255.255.0 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
192.168.100.114 255.255.255.255 127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 1
192.168.100.255 255.255.255.255 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
192.168.204.12 255.255.255.255 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
208.2.155.4 255.255.255.255 192.168.100.1 192.168.100.114 1
224.0.0.0 224.0.0.0 172.30.12.248 172.30.12.248 1
224.0.0.0 224.0.0.0 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 192.168.100.114 192.168.100.114 1
Default Gateway: 192.168.100.1
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Persistent Routes:
None
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