Early on, a friend--opining about an involvement with one such age, said,
NEVER! 'date a 25(ish?) woman'.. ~~"they are in transition to --> they know not what; emotions want You to believe that
--that pillow talk is Who-they-Are. 'Taint-so, McGee'". .... etc.

(With later experience(s) I could neither confirm/deny but .. callow-yout ensures that 'the advice' won't be heeded.)
And he was right-enough, that I've Recalled the point ... ever since. YMMV