And prospered.
4 hours. Recorded.
I say: Sorry.
She says: Ok. Tell me.
I talk. At lot.
I get info and perspectives I never knew about.
I make plans. She's a stay at home mom, teenagers.
She spent years as a counselor, crazy lockdown unit, kids.
Perfect. Who better than to talk to my crazy 14 year old daughter?
Imagine family counseling session, led by the woman I saw for years, who 9at the time) was visible (and very upsetting to) to woman I am with now?
Wow.
And the only reason my daughter will talk to her is to pump information about me.
And the main reason the old girlfriend want to do this is to satisfy her intense curiosity. What would MY kid be like? Even better, a brilliant talented female one that I did not raise. And was raised in a totally alien environment as compared to me. Nature VS nurture at it's best.
And then, she gets to affect how she interacts with me.
And I trust both of them not to attempt to destroy me.