Never mind the euphemisms: what you you are is umm, staff.
If you can live without not being {ackshully} adored - like the deal with most dogs - some come pretty close. They indeed show affection.. the little-bite and/or snuggle - on Their caprice, not yours. But I've encountered the skittish or downright human-style neurotics, too. (I see that I prefer.. the unpredictability.)
I was lucky, as mentioned before -- Sierra got to select (and I agreed she had good taste in selecting ;-) Once >10 pm, rain - one Wet kitty on porch. Warm towel + salmon skins handy - probably cemented the allegiance (?) Previous staff moved on, after a couple years of this rent-a-cat {no lobbying here - just no ~honorable way.} Sierra stayed and they left a bunch of 'accessories'. Wow - a trousseau?
May your adoption prove as smooth.. she'll let you know when you're outta line.
PS - pet care details are endless [Like - which? food, etc.]
About the kitty litter, though; you'd think that's a trivial matter.
A friend is a pro on such matters. Seems there are unconscionable folk peddling lots of silica-based "clumping" stuff (pet things are all unregulated, so biznessmen go all MBA-like for the $$. How many are going to research such items? Heh.. with Intarweb: lots more.)
Gets on paws; gets licked off; unclear re GI tract, those sharp pieces -- but the micro-fines are also breathed, especially in enclosed latrine-boxes: think silicosis. There's more info, but that's the outline.
One brand, (clumps fine) using allegedly the most nearly harmless ingredients - is 'Fresh Results' {earns silly-name award} Here.. only some {ugh} WalMarts carry it. I'll go in there for Sierra, but for not much else.
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But its dBase is broken just now! - hey, they do critters not jscript testing.