First. the Saudi government did not request that the US Armed Forces women wear an abaya - culturally correct clothing. Second, the US diplomatic corps does not require their women (nor do they) wear similar clothing. US Armed Forces women are required to wear this off-base "uniform", while the US Armed Forces men in Saudi Arabia are explicitly prohibited from wearing local clothing. So the rules are strictly the Pentagon's doing. So, if the highest ranking U. S. Air Force woman pilot, with a hundred combat missions under her belt, isn't the one to challenge a stupid Pentagon rule, who is? [link|http://www.cbsnews.com/now/story/0,1597,324757-412,00.shtml|CBS article.]
"This is where we separate our men from our women and we demean and humiliate just them."
Additionally, off base, she has to ride in the back of a car (Yes, women are prohibited from driving in Saudi Arabia) and when walking around off-base, must be accompanied by at least one man. Some man must be prepared to claim he is the lady's husband, if questioned. Sally did not go off base except to travel to another base. She never said anything about wanting to drive off base nor otherwise being an "Ugly American".