They were interviewing people in France.

The elder immigrants and their children.

The old people saw the hell of Africa and love France. They appreciate everything they get, even when it is very little, since it is so much better than where they grew up.

The kids / young adults see what they don't have, that the other people do, and hate them for it.

So it is all a matter of expectation management.

But the elders still blame France for their kids behaviour. With good reason. They said it is illegal for them to beat their children, and that is why they do not behave. If they were allowed to beat them, none of this would be happening.

Since I can't beat my kids, I make them think that I might snap and kill them some day. Probably the only thing keeping the EGC out of jail.