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Post #220,545 by imqwerky 8/22/05 11:28:33 PM Reply	MO overlooked These predatory males know what to look for in a woman. They come on with the slickness of a used car salesman, build up trust, then go for the jugular. The women I've known in abusive relationships have no clue what a healthy one looks like. When the realization finally kicks in that he's a monster, then there is the guilt trippy, "It's my fault. I made him mad. I chose him. Love will conquer all." It's not until a few bones get broken or teeth knocked out that finally intervention occurs. And even then, they (the women I've known) found it difficult to leave. As I said before, it is brainwashing to the max and it takes time to undo the damage. I feel for you, Andrew. I have a friend who recently divorced (2 years now). He is so disgusted with the dating scene. On the net, all the women want someone who pulls down 135K and will worship their children. Riiiiight. My friend just wants a nice woman with whom he can share his life. The decent women are out there, but they aren't online or at bars or any of the other singles hang-outs. They are buying groceries, taking care of their kids, going to work in the morning, coming home exhausted in the evening and wishing they could meet a nice guy on the weekend when the kids are at Dad's. If only there were a way for the twain to meet. Guess that is what praying is for. (weak smile) Peace,friend. Amy " I tend to believe the great voices of peace throughout history {were} right, and this voice from this little hamlet here in Texas is absolutely wrong. The world is watching what you do here. It is important that you be calm, that you be peaceful, but you be firm. My grandmother {used to} say, \ufffdFight them \ufffdtil hell freezes over, and when hell freezes over, fight them on the ice.\ufffd Dallas Reverend Peter Johnson, former staff member of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference.
Post #220,560 by boxley 8/23/05 12:05:08 AM Reply	hookers! $50 a pop <400 a month like BK get it yer way "the reason people don't buy conspiracy theories is that they think conspiracy means everyone is on the same program. Thats not how it works. Everybody has a different program. They just all want the same guy dead. Socrates was a gadfly, but I bet he took time out to screw somebodies wife" Gus Vitelli Any opinions expressed by me are mine alone, posted from my home computer, on my own time as a free american and do not reflect the opinions of any person or company that I have had professional relations with in the past 49 years. meep questions, help? [link\|mailto:pappas@catholic.org\|email pappas at catholic.org]
Post #220,567 by Andrew Grygus 8/23/05 12:46:05 AM Reply	That's only if sex is what you're after. I can get plenty of sex for free, so long as I don't ever imply that dirty word "commitment". Unfortunately, that just isn't what I'm looking for. [link\|http://www.aaxnet.com\|AAx]
Post #220,565 by Andrew Grygus 8/23/05 12:41:07 AM Reply	Well, at my age their kids are mostly moved out. I've been watching an on-line dating site for, well, actually, a couple years. I see the same women active there month after month after month, so obviously they aren't getting what they want - and what they want is TRAVEL. That's what they all want and apparently what they're not getting. There's little of interest there for me anyway because most have Beverly Hills, Venice or Santa Monica addresses. Now I'm not poor, but I like to live simply and keep my life pretty close to home, which I enjoy. Those addresses are simply not simple living addresses. So yeah, even after the kids are gone women suitable for an honest guy aren't on-line. I really haven't figured out where they are, and anyone to whom I've mentioned the subject has said, "Oh there are plenty of them out there, you just have to find them", translation: they haven't a clue either. Importing has crossed my mind, but I just don't find a Russian accent appealing in a woman and I prefer real American women anyway, if only I ever met any that weren't married. So they're all in hiding somewhere huddled under bare light bulbs lamenting that they can't find a decent man. You're right, the twain shall never meet. So for right now I've been turning up the intensity on the one I really want, even though I've been at it off and on for more than 15 years, but I seem to be getting some response now. We'll see how this week's 8 page hand scripted love letter works, though she hasn't mentioned any of the other 30 or so (mostly 2 pages) they have had some effect - we'll see. Of course all the experts tell me I've made the worst of all possible mistakes. They all say the way to a woman's heart is to treat her like dirt and make sure she knows you have plenty of other women who want you pretty bad. That seems to work real well (all the women who expressed an intense desire for me were ones I treated that way), but I already blew that years ago in this case so it's a pretty hard row to hoe now. [link\|http://www.aaxnet.com\|AAx]

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