to spend watching my son. My father didn't spend a lot of time with me, but he did spend some time. According to my mother, my father never changed a diaper, etc, that she did all the hard work. I've changed my share of diapers for my son. In any case, I am trying real hard to teach him not to be a bully or *sshole when he grows up. It seems he acts bad when around one of his cousins, but when he is alone or with other kids, he acts a lot better. I am suspecting that peer pressure or acting like one of your peers may play a role in this misbehaving thing. If your peers misbehave, so will you. That is why bullies always have toadies, because the toadies want to act just like the bully.