.....nope, no issues with self-confidence or self-esteem then or now. Just comparing and contrasting on this my b'day.
At 20-something: on my own, day job + business on the side, volunteer work, etc. etc....wanting to take on the world, enjoying life. Oh yes, and building my own computers too :-)
Contrast to recent conversation with 22 yo co-worker who wants to transfer from one company division to another as she is finally moving out from the 'folks' place:
"well, <sigh> I just don't know if they (other division) will take me; I'm not very good at anything."
"can you make a few calls and see if you can get me hired there?"
"can you update my resume and make me look good?"
"can you write me a letter of recommendation?"
When she did not hear back from the other division:
"whatever will I do? <sigh> I'm suppose to move at the end of the month"
To which I replied: have you tried looking at other companies in the area where you'll be moving?
"well, no. how do I do that?"
A quick glance at the area via browser found more than 50 jobs for which she was qualified.
"well, how do I apply?"
D'oh! Maybe I *am* just getting old or maybe the schools have gotten so dumbed down that these kids really don't have a clue. Bah!
My $0.02,
Slugbug