it was meant as a description of sympathy, not material or spiritual poverty. But all right. Fair enough.

I'm sorry, I knew that, I just didn't explain well enough I guess. I meant, I don't want to be thought of as "poor" Nightowl, someone who can't take care of herself or deal with insults or boorish behavior. ;)

I want to be known as someone who CAN do all those things.

Sympathy appreciated, but hopefully not needed. :)

Thanks!

Brenda
Nightowl >8#